MIND MOVER TRAINING
Training Topic for the day:
Do you really want to succeed? Here’s 8 things you should STOP doing now
The path to success can be a hard one with many lessons to learn along the way. But if you are in ByDzyne right now, you are in the right time at the right place. With a leadership team that has trudged the same path for years, starting out right where you are at this very moment in your career, ByDzyne has all the tools to make the journey of a Brand Ambassador, an easier one.
However, support, guidance and training mean nothing if your mindset is not in in the right place. What matters more than training, is your mindset. With the right mindset and belief, nothing can stop you on your journey to Crown!
If you want to achieve something you never have before, it’s time to become something you’ve never become before.
This week’s mind training is about undoing bad habits and counter-productive habits that can delay and often put a grueling stop on your path to success. By undoing these habits, you can find yourself.
If nothing changes, nothing changes
1) Stop making excuses
99% of people fail because they have the habit of making excuses. Excuses about your job, your life, the global situation, your organization, upline, etc.
Excuses are a mental block that we create for ourselves. Stop wishing you were successful and start taking action. You’ll find it so much better when your reality is better than your constant state of wishful thinking.
Get out and get things done.
2) Stop comparing yourself with others
A fish cannot climb a tree and a bird cannot swim. In a world of Facebook and Instagram it’s almost impossible not to compare yourself to others.
If you find yourself frequently envious of what others have, re-frame your mind. It isn’t fair or correct to compare oranges and apples. Simply treat what you do not have as non-existent. Look at what you do have – the things you value most, and have an attitude of gratitude. Every morning, look at the mirror and say “I am the best!”.
Appreciate and improve who you are
3) Stop wasting time
The anticipation of starting something is always much worse than the actual event. The key is to just start. Starting small is better than not starting at all! Everyone wants to make money but we need to stop wasting time. Rip those covers off and go!
Time is money
4) Stop expecting big capital
If you want to starting earning life-changing income, you must be willing to pursue your dreams with whatever you already have.
Do you want to become a President? Then do what a President would do, imitate their actions and start yourself off on the right foot. Don’t expect to reach President or Crown by starting off with a Bronze Kit/10% TVC. If you want to achieve BIG, you have to aim BIG and start off with your best foot forward!
On the same note, starting off big will not guarantee you big success in no time. Like anything else, when you set yourself up for a big goal there is a lot more hard work. You cannot cut corners or put in lesser effort. Keep working hard and stay laser focused. It might take time, but time that has been used productively will reap the highest benefits in the end.
5) Stop the unbelief
If you want financial freedom, you have to go out and get your hands dirty. There will be times when you want to quit when the going gets tough. There will be times when you question why you even took the route that you did. But it’s those that come out with their heads held high with the knowledge of what’s to come that will succeed.
Everyone wants to know how the ‘secrets to success’. But the most important secret is – you have to first believe in yourself.
Anything you believe in and anything you want, can come true!
6) Stop expecting a map
As a follow up to the previous point, belief comes with also knowing that life does not come with a map and set of instructions. Don’t wait to be instructed on how to live your life or how to run your business. With enough belief in yourself and the right attitude, the dots will connect themselves.
7) Stop expecting people to treat you well
Ask yourself what matters more: what the people around you MIGHT be thinking, or you feeling better about yourself and meeting your goals? At the end of the day, what you do in affects you, and you only. Not others. So even if they were worrying about you, you are worrying about yourself and that’s all that matters!
This fear is also experienced when one is afraid of what friends and family will think when they try something outside of the norm. When trying to start your own business or anything new, it’s important to know that there will always be someone who raises their eyebrows about your decisions.
Not everyone will accept what you do. You don’t need to care about what other people think about you.
Simply take yourself away from human mercies.
8) Stop being afraid of failure
No matter what you have to fail. To succeed is to have to learned how to fail.
Until you fail you can’t succeed.
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Call to action
Make a decision. What do you expect to be in ByDzyne?
Once you decide what you’re going to do and make a commitment to that decision, everything that follows will be easy. When you decide, nothing becomes a conflict. You might be a Diamond or a President and most people might think that that is enough. Maybe you don’t have to go to another BDO or another meeting. But, if you have already decided to run and keeping running for President or Crown, your Crown mindset will not stop you from learning more and doing more.
You are with the right company at the right time.
What are you going to do to make the best of this situation right now?
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